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Imagine you are single, you meet someone nice, ask them on a date and then the coronavirus pandemic hits.

That鈥檚 what happened to Alicia and Joe, two Cleveland residents in their early thirties, who live on the West side of town. They both requested we only use their first names.

Alicia works in the healthcare industry and her work hours are not the traditional the 9am-5pm, which can make dating tricky, she said. She has been dating for many years and said it鈥檚 not easy to find a nice guy, so she turned to a dating app 鈥� Bumble 鈥� for a little help.

Joe is a graduate student working on a degree in clinical mental health counseling. He was very interested when he came across Alicia鈥檚 profile on the dating site.

鈥淪o how it works is if you like what you see with somebody, and you think you might have a connection, you swipe to the right on their profile,鈥� Joe said. "We both swiped right on each other."

Joe and Alicia had two dates and then Ohio Gov. Mike DeWine shut down most businesses because of the coronavirus pandemic.

鈥淭he bars are closed; the restaurants are closed, entertainment venues are closed, so there鈥檚 a limit on where you can meet and what you can do,鈥� Alicia said.

So, for their third date, Joe suggested they go for a hike because people are still allowed to go outside in Ohio. They went to the Rocky River Reservation, Alicia鈥檚 favorite place to hike.

 鈥淲e went to the Metropark there and went on a walk in the rain, 鈥淛oe said.

The rain actually started before the two started hiking, but Alicia said she was so happy to get outside the rain didn鈥檛 really bother her.

鈥淚t was a lot of fun. I鈥檓 so glad I got a chance to go out and be in nature,鈥� she said.

After the hike the couple stood in the raining holding their separate umbrellas and trying to maintain the six-feet of social distance recommended by health officials.

鈥淚 will say this, and I feel like this is almost a moral taboo right now, I did give him a hug before we left,鈥� said Alicia.

But even with the hug at the end of the date Alicia said she felt like the date had been little awkward and she needed to reassure Joe she had fun.

鈥淚 did send him a text message afterwards saying, 'I do actually like you.' And he understood. He just said we have to be careful and vigilant,鈥� Alicia said.

Alicia and Joe have been handed a golden opportunity in the midst of the chaos of this crisis said, Kathy Dawson, a relationship coach based in Cleveland. Dawson, who has been helping couples for nearly three decades, said couples who are trying to make a connection during this pandemic are very similar to people trying to navigate a long-distance relationship.

 鈥淚n some respects, this is going to be good for the relationship. Its gonna slow it down,鈥� said Dawson.

鈥淪ometimes people come out of the gates so fast, and get involved so quickly before they get to know each other that it really sabotages the relationship,鈥� she said.

Couple who are social distancing while dating can build on the romance and spend lots of time talking and really getting to know each other. They are also saving money because they aren鈥檛 going out to movies and expensive restaurants, which is a bonus, Dawson said.

This is also a unique opportunity to see how the person you are dating truly handles stress, she said.

鈥淭his is a work sample of how they are under stress. Things aren鈥檛 that great. So, let鈥檚 talk about how you鈥檙e feeling, how you鈥檙e dealing. That鈥檚 what I鈥檇 want to learn about somebody,鈥� Dawson said.

As for Alicia and Joe, they plan to continue navigating the perils of social distancing, at the same time that they are trying to make a connection.

 鈥�(I鈥檇) love to get together and do something like dinner, but obviously neither one of us we can go anywhere and have dinner,鈥� Joe said.

鈥淚 honestly kinda imagine a lot more outdoor walks,鈥� he said.

Dawson says, however, even those walks might not be so wise.

 鈥淏oy I wouldn鈥檛 do that,鈥� said Dawson as she chuckled, "because you know the old pheromones come out and it鈥檚 gonna be really tough to stay away from each other.鈥�

The officials at Bumble, the dating app where the two met, agree with Dawson.

The sent an email to their customers advising people to do a lot of video chats to help with social distancing because of the coronavirus.  

Public health officials have also made clear: now is not the time to be holding hands with someone new.